• Feb 3, 2024

Do we know each other?

  • Tara Ocenar
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What does community mean and how does your community reflect you?

I have been feeling the pull to be a part of a community all of my life… this desire has become clear just recently in 2024. Throughout my personal growth journey and my personal healing journey, I have lost a number of friends and communities that I have been a part of. Suddenly I would feel it in my body that I needed to move along…alone. I have felt a lot of grief about this in January. I have been processing a lot of grief from all of the communities and friends that I have left or lost in my whole life. It is funny how our body stacks all the grief into one pile like a stack of Legos. I had never fully processed grief from early in my life so the Lego stack was tall. When I feel like I am no longer feeling in alignment with the community…I am always kind of ready to go it alone the uncomfortability of being alone was always easier than staying in a place that felt so out of alignment… I am realizing that this happens on a micro level within myself as well. When I reach a certain point of growth or healing I need to look at the stories I tell myself every day and get curious if this is something that I have outgrown. Do I need to end my relationship with that story, it is no longer true. Have I changed so much that what made that true in the past no longer applies to me now?

Today I realized that I need to apply this micro and macro analogy to my community craving. What do I get out of a community? I get to feel seen, accepted and loved. Hmmm, what if I could do this unconditionally for myself? Would that satisfy my burning desire for community? And then I thought what if I could build a community of people that want to do that for themselves?

Since starting my business I have struggled to figure out my target consumer….I think it was because I was still trying to figure out who I am and what drives me. I remember in my NLP master practitioner training they said that energetically you are always attracting a client that is just a couple of steps behind you in their healing journey. When I set intentions for my business, I ask the universe to allow me to be a lighthouse for the clients who can benefit from my innate gifts. Knowing this I am going to take a leap here to say that I know my community better the more I understand myself.

Because we are a reflection of each other I know that you care deeply about your community of people in your life, they may be your family, your children or you may work with or be of service to a community that you often put first. You likely struggle to put yourself and your needs first consistently. You probably feel a strong connection to animals and nature. You probably love the idea of in-person events and also love the idea of staying in your own bubble at home. You feel like you have big shoes to fill in this life and maybe you don’t have it all figured out yet. You have strong intuition and feel connected to something bigger than you and sometimes it feels overwhelming and possibly felt scary at one point in your life. You have been successful in life or career and then something happened that derailed everything….probably for the better but nonetheless there was a point that felt like you had to start over. This starting over sometimes feels so humbling and sometimes feels like divine intervention. We are finding our footing together and I hope to hold this space for you and me, to help our bodies feel safe and move into understanding ourselves better.

All of the spaces I hold are meant to be a bridge for you to feel more empowered and build a stronger mind-body connection so that you can soar with clear intuition while feeling safe in your body. Releasing the energetic charges held within your body and the stories that have been held in place in your mind keeping, and your nervous system in a state that is no longer serving you.

I am so glad you are here, there is power in numbers and we can keep each other on track.

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